1. like is Yi Jian Zhong Qing: 'loving' someone when you first set eyes on him.relationships like tht dont last long. its Zun Zhong Jie Na tht's zhen ai Love. meaning, gone through trials test of time difficulties obstacles knowing more and understanding of each other knowin their faults finding fault with tht person his gd and bad points but still choosing to be with him. not dispising him. not dont wantin him after seeing his faults. respect and acceptance.
2. like is Lai Que Cong Cong while love is Li Jiu Mi Xin. lai que cong cong meaning tht once the 'lian ai de gan jue' wears off in us.. when the chemical reaction in our body has subsided. we wont 'love' tht person anymore.. the feeling wont be there. relationships due to this 'chemical reaction' will last bout 2-3 yrs. tht is what researchers have found out. li jiu mi xing means tht falling more and more in love with each other as time go by.. as yearS go by.
3. Zu Yi Wai Biao for like and Nei Han Xi Ying for love. attract ppl not just by appearance but by both appearance and inner beauty. your character. not just capturing of the eye but of the heart too. presenting the best of ourselves. researchers found out tht what girls look for most in a guy is the sense of responsibility. with it comes the sense of security tht guys will give girls. girls need sense of security frm the guy. for guys what they look for in a girl is wen rou. definition of wen rou is - bu luan fa bi qi dont anyhow throw tantrum getting angry. having of stable emotional control. willingness to help. caring. cheerful. not gossiping not talkin bad bout ppl behind their backs.
4. last point under like is Shen Ti Jie Chu. for love its Yuan Yi Deng Hou. basically just to say is zi wo yue su. girls even just your hand. dont easily let a guy hold. because when doin tht, we unconciously give away our hearts. and one day your heart will be broken if your hand is being let go by the guy. guys gotta take up the responsibility of not breaking her heart as you take her hand in yours. [ personally i find its vice versa. not just girls do this and guys do tht ] be sure of it. most important is keeping yourself pure till you are married. that special someone whoever is that out there is Worth Waiting For..

Happy Valentine's Day to all my friends ^_^